As a starting point, your not-googlebot needs to spider sites differently from googlebot (so it can't be detected by traffic analysis), imitate average user hardware well (GPU acceleration + high GPU performance, more realistically slow network, slower CPU hardware, etc), use network addresses not obviously Google's, and imitate user behavior (plausible input events, scrolling, etc). This is within Google's capabilities but is definitely an undertaking and SEO types could eventually identify their strategies.