Just realized I might be a grumpy old man.
It shouldn't be so controversial to claim that automatic adjustment of settings is a net UX win this this common scenario.
There have been cars that change various settings depending on the key fob used ("hers and his"):
* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lSoJPgFSDOE
Before fobs, where you actually put the key in the ignition hols, there were cars with "memory buttons".
Not being able to fix my own car because you've used space age technology to solve turning a dial IS a problem I care about.