Diversification means I need to give the stock broker more money. That's all it means to me. I understand the risk aversion concept. You don't need to "educate" me.
Telling lay people (as you call them) that they need to do this or bad things will happen is the perfect scam. Create disonance and then offer a solution.
"Repent and ye shall be saved." "Diversify and ye shall be saved." I don't buy either argument. I got out of the market in 2000, never been back. Never will.
Edit... and yes, I owned index funds, but they wanted me to buy more index funds to further diversify my holdings. I learn quickly. That's always been my problem.