> Do people try not to commute?
Spoken like someone who's never tried to commute in SF. Public transportation options are extremely limited, owning a car is extremely expensive.
And I commute in LA, it's not exactly enjoyable or cheap. But it's cheaper than living within walking distance of my office.
Since I moved to Seattle I pay 1/2 as much for groceries, 1/4 as much for the gym, 2/3 as much to eat out. So in the end rent isn’t the only problem. All your costs add up. Add state income tax and the problem compounds further.