Also, just to throw another opinion into this dumpster fire:
I had to get a new laptop, knew I was getting a 2019 MBP, and was terrified the keyboard experience would be horrendous due to the coverage I see on the topic here.
And it isn't at all. It feels different than my 2015 model, but... definitely not worse. I may even be just slightly better because it's noticeably quieter.
Just one perspective, but yeah. The keyboard rage on here should not be taken as anything approaching absolute truth.