He's right. It's easy to understand one level of variance: you can replace a return type by a subtype and a parameter type by a supertype. (I wouldn't be surprised that many programmer don't undestand this.)

Two levels already requires some deep thinking (assuming definition-site variance: `List<Object>` or `List<String>` as a return type / parameter type, was is allowed to replace it?

More than that? (`List<List<String>>`) Hahaha, good luck.

And by the way, Java has notations to specify the variance of type, but only at the use-site, which is different from doing it at the definition site (both enable expressing things the other can't do... but you can actually have both, as I think is the case in Kotlin, though there are some limitations).