Sure, some people definitely upgrade. But there's a big difference between requiring someone to actively hear and heed your warning and having them automatically upgrade whenever they create a newer project. Or even just prompting them to upgrade like NPM does for package vulnerabilities.
> For the users who don't upgrade, they're not likely to upgrade a third party / split off thing any more than the core language.
That's not the point. If your standard library is a package, any new project will automatically download the latest version of the standard library. If I have a vulnerability in an npm package, I simply push a new version and people will automatically download that new version when they create a new project. If there is a vulnerability in the Python standard library, users will continue to have that vulnerability until they actively patch it.
> Sucks for whom? I've been out of the Node ecosystem for several years, is there a pfs module that uses promises (either built-in or as an external lib)? If so users can use that if they want. Does it suck for the maintainer? I don't see how if those functions are small and don't really need any maintenance.
Not a canonical one. They're starting to add a new promise based API, but now we have two different APIs doing the same thing. What if we come up with a newer way to do async? Do we add yet another API?
> What would suck is if all the existing programs that wrote some fs-using code a long time ago and haven't had to touch it now suddenly need to go update it to satisfy people's fashions.
That's a bit of a straw man. With packages, you can still support multiple versions. It's just that fs would no longer be tied to Node. You could make a newer fs package, fs 2.0 or whatever, that uses promises. The older one would still be supported, of course, but it wouldn't be stuck in Node.