In that case the right thing to do is to make it clear that you're not prioritizing number of users, you're not here to solve problems for users other than yourself at least in the short term (because you're interested in pursuing your vision, not implementing feature requests from people without good taste), and that you're not trying to take everyone's feedback into account. Then people stop expecting you to do more than you can, and you can slowly and quietly pursue your vision and perhaps find a small number of collaborators who share your taste.
Clojure sort of had this moment recently, where various people in the community were unhappy with the language direction and Rich Hickey (who is a person who cares about vision and taste in a language) made it quite clear that addressing their problems directly wasn't his definition of success. He was building a language for himself / his company to use, and if it worked for other people, great, and if they wanted to contribute to his vision, great, but if it didn't work for them, they should not expect Clojure to change. https://gist.github.com/richhickey/1563cddea1002958f96e7ba95... That, at least, is clear, and it means that authors of significant third-party libraries that are clashing with the vision of the language (and its community) can make an informed decision to spend time elsewhere, avoiding frustration on all sides. https://twitter.com/cemerick/status/1067111260611850240
I don't think Guido is/was actually trying to do this, and I think it's unfair to say that was his goal. If it was, then he was deliberately tricking people by having a core team, BDFL-Delegates, a language summit, etc. If it was, then he was being rude by asking her to come to the language summit instead of saying "Amber, Twisted is very good but your vision for Python is not my vision for Python." Guido, as far as I can tell, built Python to be a widely-used language, not a language following any sort of vision he started with. Guido does want Twisted and other Twisted-scale projects around, and does want Python to be a useful language for them. That's why I say that if he's burned out, the right way to execute his vision (which is exactly what he's doing, in fact) is to step aside graciously.