Billingsley is pretty darn good. It might have left the connection as a dotted line given that the notion is no different from conditional expectation. The only connection you have to make is conditional expectation is a function and a random variable. You must have seen expectation taken of a conditional expectation. That should should convince you that condititional expectation is indeed a random variable. Since that r.v. was obtained by conditioning its not a stretvh to call it a conditioned r.v.

Any book that explains conditioning over a sigma algebra should suffice. You could try Loeve, Dudely or Neveu but dont remember if its mentioned explicitly.

BTW conditional expectation is really more fundamental than conditional probability. Its the former that yields the latter in measure theoretic probability. If you want to drink from the source that would be Kolmogorov.

Finally if you are reading Billingsley you are adequately qualified to call yourself a mathematician.