I don't like paying taxes either, but we have to fund our government and the services it provides somehow, right?
If you rent a space and buy a Mac for work you can probably get the VAT you paid back, deducting if from the VAT you add to your own invoices.
Income tax and VAT are the biggest taxes here, what I am saying is that income tax is worse because it hurts jobs directly. VAT does distort pricing internationally, as you say. If all countries would have the same it would be better for everyone.
It would be even better if we could tax capital and corporate profits more, but powerful forces work against that.
Of course we can also not sufficiently fund the government and gut it. We'll see in a decennium or two how that works out in the US.