I suppose you can just shrug and be OK with pretty much staying in or near cities but that seems to close off a lot of options.
I also couldn't deal with day-to-day things without a car but that's at least somewhat manageable depending upon where you live and work.
ADDED: I'm not a typical Silicon Valley developer to be sure, but I couldn't even have done my first job absent a drivers license. It may be worth asking if you want to be employable outside of certain bubbles where you'll be the weird person who always needs a ride because they can't drive even though they don't have a disability.