All you can do as a professional, with experience, is offer up an argument and attempt to make it convincing enough to compel people to do things your way. If they reject your option, defend only once, and no more. After that, simply step back and work with whatever technologies are decided upon.

You can also attempt to work the social networking game and play (internal) politics. If you do these successfully you're more likely to get your ideas heard and implemented. I find this tiresome.

Ultimately if I'm being polite, professional and basing my arguments on facts and evidence, and they're being rejected, I'm not expelling any more energy on this front. Move on. Work on and with what's decided and have fun doing it.