>If you have (2,3,4) and want to navigate to (5,6,7) who is also in your space and you have scalar mult as your tool of choice then mult with 2 gets you to (4,6,8) but then you are stuck. Soon you realize no matter what you do you can’t navigate that space without fractions.

One of us is very confused. It seems to me that I also can't get from (2,3,4) to (5,6,7) by pure scalar multiplication even if fractions are allowed. If I pick a scalar factor of 2.5 to make 2 -> 5 work, then I get (5, 7.5, 10). If I pick anything else, the result won't start with 5.

>>A working definition of a space might be - you have a member in that space, you can get to every other member by just scalar mult.

Really no. You can only access parallel vectors by scalar multiplication. E.g. if your vector space is R2, given a starting vector and scalar multiplication, you can anything in a line with the direction of that vector, but nothing pointing in a different direction. That's more or less why it's called "scalar" multiplication - it scales the original vector, but doesn't change its direction.