The Chinese government is doing nothing different to the USA government. So, of one accuses the Chinese government of acting unfairly, then one must also accuse the USA government the same way. The Chinese government is only acting in the same manner as the USA government.
If the Chinese government is "stealing and must be punished", then so to is the USA government and the same punishment needs to be handed out to the USA government.
The actions being discussed are common to all governments (and a lot of companies as well) and if you want things to change then you have to take seriously your responsibility to bring about change in your government.
I am no fan of the Chinese government and I am no fan of the USA government. From my perspective, they are both acting in the same manner and are both causing serious damage to the world in all sorts of ways. But that is a discussion for another time and place.