So I have to make a homebase to fix this. But the problem is that I feel like I would be making a mistake whichever place I choose.

At one side I like Europe more because it's better aligned to my personality, interests and also the standard of living is higher. I would settle down somewhere in south of France, Italy, or Spain, and then travel maybe few months per year max. I want to start a family and figured out Asia is not the right place for me to do this.

At the other side there's SEA and all the spicyness it brings. I go back to Europe every summer and spend winters in Asia, and I have good friends in SEA which I miss, but I feel like I am delaying the "real life" whenever I go there.

It's a good question to which I don't have a good answer to. I am going through a bit of existential crisis right now due to this.