For folks unfamiliar with it, the issue is something like:
1. You find a bug in a library A.
2. Libraries B, C and D depend on A.
3. B, C and D in turn are used by various applications.
How do you fix a bug in A? Well, "normal" workflow would be something like: fix the bug in A, submit a PR, wait for a CI build, get the PR signed off, merge, wait for another CI build, cut a release of A. Bump versions in B, C and D, submit PRs, get them signed off, CI builds, cut a release of each. Now find all users of B, C and D, submit PRs, get them signed off, CI builds, cut more releases ...
Now imagine the same problem where dependency chains are a lot more than three levels deep. Then throw in a rat's nest of interdependencies so it's not some nice clean tree but some sprawling graph. Hundreds/thousands of repos owned by dozens/hundreds of teams.
See where this is going? A small change can take hours and hours just to make a fix. Remember this pain applies to every change you might need to make in any shared dependency. Bug fixes become a headache. Large-scale refactors are right out. Every project pays for earlier bad decisions. And all this ignores version incompatibilities because folks don't stay on the latest & greatest versions of things. Productivity grinds to a halt.
It's easy to think "oh, well that's just bad engineering", but there's more to it than that I think. It seems like most companies die young/small/simple & existing dependency management tooling doesn't really lend itself well to fast-paced internal change at scale.
So having run into this problem, folks like Google, Twitter, etc. use monorepos to help address some of this. Folks like Netflix stuck it out with the multi-repo thing, but lean on tooling [0] to automate some of the version bumping silliness. I think most companies that hit this problem just give up on sharing any meaningful amount of code & build silos at the organizational/process level. Each approach has its own pros & cons.
Again, it's easy to underestimate the pain when the company is young & able to move quickly. Once upon a time I was on the other side of this argument, arguing against a monorepo -- but now here I am effectively arguing the opposition's point. :)
[0] https://github.com/nebula-plugins/gradle-dependency-lock-plu...