I don't mean that it's magical, just that it's not particularly sorcery. Instead of making a breaking change, add new method, deprecate old method. Update projects, then get rid of old deprecated method. Because they're distinct you can do this one by one so some project can reap the benefits without having to wait until all the problems are solved.
Some people in this thread act like its freagin impossible. Avoiding breaking changes in APIs or proper deprecation strategies is an art everyone developing software should know: sooner or later they'll have to contribute to an open source project or have to make a more complicated breaking change or SOMETHING and will have to deal with it. Even if they use a monorepo. And when it happens you don't want it to be the first time anyone deals with it.