Obviously controlling your own "watching" system is most secure, but the vast majority of people aren't going to want to do it themselves.
And again, if the biggest worry is that someone will pay off multiple "watchers" then publish a previous version of a channel to steal money from you and hope that your proper node isn't online at any point during the locktime (or DoS your node to prevent you from seeing the bad transaction) to punish the thief and "steal" all the money back. I think we are doing a pretty good job!