scare me ... because at least I know for sure what'll happen then.
Which is just because once you learned how pointers behave. Similarly, if you'd just take the time to learn the basics of rvalues, moving, RVO, ..., you won't be scared by them anymore. Might thake longer than pointers, sure, but it's worth it.
Maybe this is just my experience, but it took me far longer to understand the subtleties of move semantics, rvalues, and RVO than to understand pointers and references in C++. And this is not even getting into “universal references” (which I don’t have a comfortable understanding of either)
There's a YouTube video [1] of a great talk by Scott Meyers: Effective Modern C++ (part 1). He covers universal references and how they relate to other kinds of references in either that one or Part 2 [2]. I found the videos very helpful.
Edit - I may have the wrong videos linked. It could be his talk on Universal References [3] that I'm thinking of. It's been a while.
