> C++ has a standard which contains extremely precise descriptions of how things work which is more than can be said for many languages.
(0) Most programming languages don't set the bar very high.
(1) You missed the “short” part. The C++ standard is already pretty long, and it isn't even written in a form that makes it possible to prove things about C++ programs by consulting the standard.
> How many other languages are there that have three major compiler and standard library implementations with almost no common code yet which all manage to be largely compatible (able to compile the same code and agree on the meaning)?
I can think of at least four: Standard ML, Common Lisp, C, Java.
> Some of the complexity of C++ comes from it doing hard things,
In unintelligent ways. For example:
(0) Macro, pardon my French, template expansion as a generic programming tool is super dumb. Better alternatives were known in the 70's.
(1) C++ classes are very poor abstract data types: You need arcane language design hacks like `friend` to abstract over two or more types at once.
(2) C++ classes are also very poor object constructors: The language has no type for “all objects that have methods foo, bar, qux” (à la OCaml or Go).
> some is in part a consequence of heroic efforts at backwards compatibility.
Most of it.