I'm still living in a city, just a small one. Having checked Wikipedia, it tells me the population is officially 320k. There are six Universities and the city is UNESCO listed as a Cultural Heritage site. I just don't see this location disadvantaging my child. In fact, I think it's a location with a pretty good mix of culture and nature.
Nothing is perfect of course, but I think we're in a better position than if we'd stayed in London.
If we were to move back to the UK, I'd be looking at somewhere like Cambridge or Edinburgh perhaps.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/aug/07/london...
https://www.teachers.org.uk/expert-view/why-attainment-highe...
I grew up in a city of 100k, and I had all the opportunities that someone growing up in a bigger city would have. The quality of teaching was fine too. I did go to a larger school, with 2300 pupils though.
(I'm originally from London, and I also live in a smaller European city).