So, like:
<T> foo(A<T> a, B<T> b) { ... }
You don't know what `T` is, but you know that `a` and `b` are parameterized by the same type.> Then it isn't.
That it's not completely typesafe (Scala isn't, either, BTW) doesn't mean that it's not completely safe. The vague notion of safety is not defined by the arbitrary notion of type safety, which heavily depends on the type system. TCL is typesafe, but few would say it's safer than Java.
> But very few people would consider that a useful meaning: if you run into it, your program plainly has a bug.
There are many more plainly incorrect behaviors that aren't prevented even when the language is 100% type safe (depending on the type system, and the effort required to encode the correctness conditions) -- as Java prior to generics was, BTW. So if you want to define "safe" as "typesafe", that's fine, but given than ML's and Java's type systems are of similar (not identical, but similar) richness (i.e., they are both simple type systems with parametric polymorphism), and given that you don't actually run into `ClassCastExceptions` in Java unless you choose to do stuff that can get you into that sort of trouble (which would mean ignoring compiler warnings), I think the two languages offer a similar level of safety.