I'd recommend trying http://dkimvalidator.com/ to make sure everything is perfect; having proper certs on your MXs seems to help too.
I run a pretty large email infra (~500k/minute) and I'd help you out if I can...
If you're still having problems with all that in place then why don't you just change IPs?
As for your help offer, thank you, but I'm good. It's usually other people who want to contact me, I rarely send the first message ever.
I mean.. If you get a solid result from dkimvalidator but google is still shitlisting you then I'd definitely consider moving to another host/dc/isp at least.
Depending on your size, it might be best just to make this someone else's problem (if you can) -- like google, o365, etc..
Maybe it's worse for non-English mail (maybe the statistical models are biased against "not English" even for people whom don't have English as a native language).
But I'm quite convinced google's (and to a lesser extent Hotmail/ms') "magic" spamfiltering is subtly (but annoyingly) broken.