No, you don't. By your extremely aggressive tone, I can see that not only you completely misunderstood my post, but also was offended by it.

Not only that, you don't even seem to think that maybe you don't know, that there are different ways to voice and interpret messages.

I'm not making an appeal to emotion, I'm explaining that perhaps you can't comprehend why people act in a certain manner because you're not in their place. That is normal, we all do it. It has nothing to do with gender or skin color, just with not being in the place of the other person.

I even tried to make it very clear:

> Also, please don't think that I'm judging you or saying that you're a bad person because of it. We all share the same difficulties, and that doesn't make us better or worse, just humans.

But you just chose to ignore it and believe in your own truth.

So not only you don't know what I meant, you intentionally ignored my clarification and decided to create your own reality. And I'm sure that no matter what I say, you'll continue to claim that I just mean to offend you.

Well, if the cap fits, wear it.

> And what does what you are doing look like to you?

From your comment I thought you didn't understand the parent so I tried to help by trying to explain it differently. I was trying to help clear up possible confusion.

Does what I posted look like advocacy to you? I honestly didn't mean it that way.