I would love to be able to remember regex specifics from lib to lib and app to app, but try as I might, I can't. I never know if I have lookaheads or backrefs or named captures available and what the syntax is, I can't remember if there are named character classes. I end up reading the docs, again, almost every time I dig into a regex problem. Same reason for me- I use too many flavors of regex libs. If I could stick to one language, I'd have some hope.
I haven't tried RegexBuddy, but now I'm going to because of your comment, thanks for sharing!