Endure it? Try visiting the NY Times. It doesn't load slow, behave sludgy, or suffer from display errors. And SPAs are a faster experience when you know the user is going to be looking at multiple pages, like how people typically read newspapers.

If the user is on any hardware from the past 7 years, a React developer would have to do some distinctly bad programming to make it behave sludgy. Any poor performance is likely to be from the same things that make a classic static page slow: large media files and tracking scripts.

One of the really powerful features of React is that server rendering of the views is trivial. This makes it very compelling even for content sites, where as you rightly say, time to first meaningful render of said content really matters after you hit the URL in your browser.

You could even write an entirely server-rendered web application, or a static website, in React should you be so inclined. In fact, I do the latter for my (very simple) personal site at https://davnicwil.com!

Nothing about React obliges you to do client rendering, a SPA app, or anything complex at all. It's, at the end of the day, just a view rendering library.