In China, they're building mad infrastructure--big state. In Europe, they're providing a good quality of life--big state.
The "small state" places I can think of, none of them are places people are flocking to for an improved quality of life.
Why can't we see how well this idea works out in practice? Why does no one ever say "look at [minimal-state place X] and see how people are happy, thriving, and free"?