1) dayjob with a small, impressive startup
2) smart, original side-project that has passionate users and an income stream
3) thoughtful, well-written essays on his personal blog
Of course, I'm not quite there yet. But yeah. You've summed it up.
I find it really hard to find the time to write (even though I really deeply enjoy it), in part because I know that once I get started, I don't stop. But I have a start-up to run, so I can't spend all my energy blogging.
Really, my problem with blogging isn't time-management, it's energy-management. At the moment, my energy is directed towards my start-up rather than towards my writing. I don't really know what the right answer is to this choice.
Sounds funny, I know, but what I realized is that I shouldn't be working harder, I should be working smarter. I also learned that people with lots of time on their hands always complain about not having enough time/energy, which I now know isn't the case.
Now, its fair to say that I may not be making great things, but I feel better about what I am making, and I am happy with my throughput.
Maybe, you don't need to have kids, but you do need to find some kind of full filling activity, outside of start ups. It will help you focus when you aren't doing that activity.
He suggests creating a "to-stop" list - a list of all the things that are sucking away your energy and are wasting your time. He suggests figuring out which of those things is having the biggest negative impact on you doing the stuff you really want to do and tackling that thing head on each day.
If 10 years from now, when you are doing something quick
and dirty, you suddenly visualize that I am looking over
your shoulders and say to yourself: 'Dijkstra would not
have liked this', well that would be enough immortality for me.
- EWD