I'm not convinced all of those things are done via mode eight, but rather, by direct CAN bus access. I know, for example, some models of cars only expose a limited number of actuators over mode 8, mostly emissions stuff.
Do you have a reference? In any case, "mode 8" is a subset of what unconstrained CAN bus access gives you.
Edit: The best info I can find is in this whitepaper: http://www.autosec.org/pubs/cars-oakland2010.pdf
You can see packet dumps on page 10. These aren't obd-ii packets. They are CAN bus "DeviceControl" packets. These are the ones they used to manipulate braking, etc.
The context I'm trying to convey is that a dongle that exposes the OBD-II port wirelessly should probably expose only the "safe-ish" parts of OBD-II. No direct CAN bus access, no access to mode 8, mode 4, etc.