Mostly I think that the fear of the borrow checker has become more meme than truth at this point. The difficulty with Rust is that it has things found in different languages, so no matter who you are you probably have to learn something: a strong type system and unique ownership and pointers, and if you're coming from a language like Python and Javascript you may know none of this! But that's what we're here for (that's where I came from!), and we like to help. :)
As someone who has yet to do more than do minimal dabbling in the language, this is a very positive message. It expresses that there is some work to learning this so don't be put off if you experience it, it's normal, and that the work required to learn it pays off in the end.
That's probably a more appropriate message than that it's not hard. I don't think it's appropriate to express to people that learning pointers in C and C++ is "easy". It's not "hard", but it's not necessarily easy for some people. It requires a specific mental model, and depending on how they learned to program, it may be more or less easy for them to wrap their head around. Afterwards, it's easy and makes sense. I assume the borrow checker follows a similar learning hurdle. That doesn't mean we should forget what it's like before we've learned it though (and at this point, there's probably a lot of people in the midst of learning rust that haven't quite fully internalized the borrow checker).
