In the case of a supposed aging gene, consider that genes themselves preferentially want to exist in more fit organisms. If a gene could somehow manage this (i.e. be embodied with more fit genes), it will itself spread. But this is exactly what an aging gene does! Consider how an advantageous gene spreads through a population. This spread is a function of the number of generations that have passed. So a gene that could speed up the passing of generations will increase its own likelihood of existing in more fit organisms (increasing its own fitness), as advantageous genes within the population spread faster and are more frequently "paired up" with the aging gene. But the subpopulation with the aging gene is more fit than the subpopulation without it since the time for advantageous genes to spread is decreased, and so the aging population overtakes its counterpart.