I think that's where we disagree.
Given, Dan can't change the fact he's gay.
Given, Mike Pence has formally expressed that "Homosexuality is incompatible with military service" and signed into law legislation allowing businesses in Indiana to kick out gay customers when he was governor of Indiana.
Given, Mike Pence's party controls the Congress, Executive, and Legislative branches of government.
It follows it is likely harmful to homosexual people to elect Mike Pence. And the burden for explaining why that risk is okay falls on the people who vote for Pence and who don't want to be seen as racist, because it sure looks racist.