I think the way to go is to create a mood board / app style guide / (whatever you like to call it) that shows the design of elements. So you will have the design of buttons (all states), fonts, font sizes margins, and maybe even only one fake page design.
When you present this next to the interaction design customers can understand what is going on and most can imagine what the end product is going to look like.
And imho it's also a managers job to guide the customer away from (for that moment) distracting remarks like 'make the box bluer'.
You can simple fix this by saying something like "Ok, we will note your remark about the color".