> Why would nodes in the IPFS network voluntarily act as a load balancer for my VPS?
Why would nodes in the BitTorrent network voluntarily act as a load balancer for your movies?
Same reason. Maybe you and I cannot explain the reason, but that does not mean that it doesn't happen. People don't always act in a 100% rational, for-profit manner, no matter what economics textbooks tell you.
(Edit: Of course the likelihood of your content being mirrored rises with the quality of your content.)