Drop the dogma. Stuff like "OOP is terrible" or "FP is terrible" or "JavaScript is terrible", etc. are not only wrong but they are destructive only to you. Nobody else cares that you hold this view, it just keeps you ignorant about that thing and holds back your skill set and career. If you take the time to actually learn how to use the thing in question properly, what the good parts of it are and how good things not only can be made with it but are being made with it you will be better for it. Even if at the end of that you still decide you don't want to use it yourself (which is totally valid, we all have our preferences) you will be better off. You will be take the view not that "X is terrible" but that "X is not my preferred way of doing Y."

Second, don't waste your time bullshitting with a bunch of people who don't know anything about anything and just want to be "right" all the time. Where "right" here is actually "agree with the trendy position", which right now is "FP is good, OOP is bad." Talk to professional developers who actually do the work you want to do, and learn from them what it is they do and how they do it. To be sure, some people who hold those silly views do work as developers, but I would argue they're not professional. A professional sees tools as tools and not as a substitute for a personality.

Bullshitting is a great thing to do to blow off steam, we can't code 24x7, but there's constructive chat and then there's a useless echo chamber full of nonsense (which IRC is really good at forming.)

Anyway, hope that helps. I used to talk like the stuff I see in this chat when I was younger, then I realized what I just said about those opinions only being harmful to myself and now I try to be more open minded.