It's definitely fair to remind people that they have options, but most people want stability, family, to watch the game, enjoy the sunset, and derive little joy from shaking things up and wagging it in other people's faces.
Moreover - most people recognize that life is just as much a responsibility as it is an opportunity.
The 'Rock N Roll' movement was about self actualization, but when everyone fully self-actualizes, there is nobody left to pay the bill for the hotel room that was just trashed.
Life is fairly mundane, it's mostly just work, dealing with people, common things. Even for 'famous and exciting people'.
