Those are huge organizations with commensurately large developer resources, and they simply work at a different scale than most people on HN. "It works for Google" is not an argument for anything.
Monorepos come with their own challenges. For example, if any of your code is open source (which means it must be hosted separately, e.g. on Github), you have to sync the open-source version with your private monorepo version.
Monorepo are large. Having to pull and rebase against unrelated changes on every sync puts an onerous burden on devs. When you're remote and on the road, bandwidth can block your ability to even pull.
And if you're going to do it like Google, you'll vendor everything -- absolutely everything (Go packages, Java libraries, NPM modules, C++ libraries) -- which requires a whole tool chain to be built to handle syncing with upstream, as well as a rigid workflow to prevent your private, vendored fork from drifting away from upstream.
There are benefits to both approaches. There is no "one right way".