I would ask, "Who's 'we' in that sentence?".
If we could survey Iraqis how many would say, "Yes, I hate being invaded and occupied, but at least they got rid of that jerk Saddam."? Keeping in mind that we can't survey the dead...
Notwithstanding that awesome scene in Monty Python's "Life of Brian":
> Reg: All right, but apart from the sanitation, the medicine, education, wine, public order, irrigation, roads, the fresh-water system, and public health, what have the Romans ever done for us?
> PFJ Member: Brought peace?
> Reg: Oh, peace? SHUT UP!
The basic issue facing everyone is how do we have the good stuff, while giving the bloodshed and trauma the miss?