It is certainly possible to fully understand a car down to minute detail. It's even easier if you get briefed on design decisions.
Sure, a single human can have a decent understanding of everything in it, but not down to the deep details. There just isn't enough time to learn all of that.
That's excessive for automotive software, however; you do some device drivers here and there but ain't going to modify the memory allocator or process scheduler. How much detail Musk keeps on to here is open to speculation. On my part, I can say the industrial products I developed I understand really well. Starting from where and why ejector pins on diecasting molds go, the particular conductor plate used for spot welding, wire gage in the cable bundles, through kernel drivers, FPGA programming, EMC compliance issues in PCB layout to how many units fit on a euro pallet.. and am no Elon Musk. Don't sell your ability short.
Now a car? NO WAY, not even Musk.
The question was not about building however, but understanding the design of the whole thing down to a fine detail.