>When he says, "YOU are full of bullshit," is that the intellectual honesty part?
if the guy is full of it then not saying it would be intellectual dis-honesty :). You and me belong to the different mindsets separated by a Grand Canyon. Man, i understand the reasons behind PC-culture, yet i just don't agree with the required trade-off. It is pretty much the same as security vs. privacy & other freedoms - there is really no meaningful debate possible beside clearly stating your own position as these mindsets are separated by the same size canyon. It is not separation of reasoning, it is separation of the choice of the top priority - in most cases that choice is deeply unconscious, and i have my personal theory connecting it to evolution and natural selection :) It is not that people on different sides don't understand the reasons of the other side, it is just people on each side are separated by their choice of the reasoning they assign higher priority to, like me and you in this case.