This "that's just like, your opinion, man" attitude may be fine if you have no worldly goal affinity and are planning on spending the rest of your days in a remote mountain monastery. If you don't care about achieving any particular goal, then yes, all possible attitudes are equivalent. But that sort of handwavey quietism is not actually relevant to almost all people's situations.
If you do have specific short term goals -- such as, say, "building a profitable software product before we run out of money" -- then all methods of approaching the task are demonstrably not equal. Some will work much better than others in terms of achieving that goal.
We can study the empirical results of the numerous attempts already made by other people and thus avoid repeating their mistakes.
