Same with gay, homosexual, etc. Doesn't mean anything bad.
I'm quite surprised with all the videoclips/songs, tv shows and videogames that avoid f-words or are edited (with noises).
People sometimes want to harm with words, words themselves mean nothing.
If by saying the n-word casually, you mean removing the hatred and power behind a word which has divided our people for centuries by giving it a new and friendly connotation, then of course I am for it.
If by saying the n-word casually, you mean flippantly dismissing decades of institutionalized enslavement and murder, and a constant reminder that for all our progress we are still very much two nations, then I despise it.
Its clear to me though that the n-word still causes a great deal of pain to many of my brothers and sisters, and I want no part of that. So even though I hope that someday the n-word will lose this meaning, you're not going to hear it coming out of my mouth.
The list of outlawed words is growing by the day which is just ridiculous.
Nigger is used in rap music all the time.
You'd hear it come out of my mouth:
1. If singing along to R&B Rap etc
2. If quoting some comedy or trying to be funny
Certainly wouldn't use it in an aggressive/hateful way, and that's what you have to always bear in mind - context.I don't think any of us say "afroamerican", but we do use "African American" even when the person in question is not American--it's kind of silly.
And yes, we say f*ck (censored because I don't remember the HN rules) constantly here too, but that's generally in a specific context: working on something with friends, out with other college students, etc. My friends and I, and most people I know, tend to not swear much around our elders or children; it's censored on TV because the audience is much wider than the couple friends you're hanging out with.
As far as censorship goes, look what we can do now thanks to years of bleeping and blurring: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D8Vh9_Hi1kY
Furthermore, was Silverman really making a statement about political correctness and free speech–or was she just going after Palin?
On the actual issue, I have mixed feelings. On one hand, it bothers me when kids use "retarded" or "gay" or "fag" as an insult. On the other hand, everyone is way too sensitive about language and being a victim any time someone else says something careless.
Both. So, here's the events in not-quite-chronological order:
1. Rahm Emanuel calls recalcitrant liberal democrats "retarded."
1.5. Palin is outraged.
2. Rush Limbaugh mentions the "retard conference."
2.5. Palin is not outraged, because "satire" is okay.
3. Sarah Silverman accepts this bet and makes a comedy routine that is incredibly outrageous, but obviously satirical.
Is it okay? Of course it's not okay, because Palin is a hypocrite and only cares about the issue as far as it is political leverage; she's been accused of using "the r-word" on multiple occasions from multiple sources.
So then Silverman's satire is a political joke of high caliber and razor wit. But, it's also highlighting a larger issue that people have with doing generous things for selfish and calculated reasons. The actual substance of her talk is basically that she wants a special needs kid because this makes her an awesome person.
I'd guess her thinking was "Palin says it's okay as satire so I'll trap her with the most outrageous, offensive satire possible." Then again, I'm not in her head.
Thanks for the rundown of events btw. It was helpful.
I'm still thinking in my own mind about the other points you raised, but +1 for exactly this.
Kids (and sometimes adults) should be taught or reminded that it's careless and insulting to use words like "retarded" and "gay" and "fag" in a careless or insulting way. It's a matter of good manners, not a March on Washington.
moron - having a mental age between 8 and 12
dumb - slow to learn or understand; lacking intellectual acuity; lacking the power of human speech;
idiot - a person of subnormal intelligence
imbecile - retardation more severe than a moron but not as severe as an idiot
maniac, lunatic - an insane person
We throw these words around (as a society) all the time without regard to their original intent. Is this simply a case of forgiving the past and trying not to repeat those mistakes going forward? Where do we draw the line with allowing words to be used outside of their initial purpose?
I can call my friend a 'retard' (I don't, as a result of habit/upbringing) but I had a professor once who had a daughter with CP. I would never DARE say that word in his classroom (or any other, really) not just because of the offense it would cause, but because it has no place in a scholarly discussion.
Know your audience - trying to make a splash by saying something crass or unnerving just to watch people squirm is a fun game and it has it's place - but that's not really what the TED stage is for. Granted, I'm not qualified to make that distinction, but I think Chris Anderson (if anyone) probably is. The tone at TED is generally challenging, but tempered with a good dose of respect, which Sarah notoriously lacks.
There's a spectrum of things the organizers might do to try to distance themselves. Most extreme would be to not put Silverman's video up at all, or bleep it. Milder options would be hiding her talk from indexes, demoting it in search results, or wrapping it in disclaimers.
(I hope they treat her talk exactly the same as every other TED talk, but they may not be able to resist the strong social pressure to show 'sensitivity' and thus shun Silverman at some level.)
I'd hope, at a minimum, they post a bleeped version!
People are going to be asking to see it after all the attention it's received.
Plus it sounds like a number of folks gave her a standing ovation - so it's not exactly like it was a complete disgrace. Kind of bad enough for Chris Anderson to slam an invited speaker so publicly - hopefully TED doesn't act petty about it.
TEDtalks are licensed under Creative Commons. Anyone know if speakers have the right to obtain a copy of their individual talks to share, even if they don't make the site?
Not because of the word "retarded," but because she said she would adopt a terminally ill person. I struggle to see how she could make light of something like that...
If TED organizers didn't expect as much, their planning was performed in an intellectually-disabled manner. (Is that phrasing R-Word-campaign-approved?)
Comics like this are meant to shock and disgust us with what they say if nothing else to throw our own thoughts into perspective.
Making fun of people like Sarah Palin, who believe that they are virtuous because they choose to bring mentally retarded people into this world, is funny. In this case, the comedian attacks a cruel ideology that puts pain and suffering on a pedestal.
Sarah Silverman should have made it more clear who she was making fun of. Her audience was uncomfortable because they thought that she was making fun of retarded people.
Making fun of people like Sarah Palin, who believe that they are virtuous because they choose to bring mentally retarded people into this world, is funny.
Sarah Palin is an idiot, but people who don't kill their own children merely because they have some issues are relatively virtuous.
Well you asked..
"Saying the word 'retarded' can only have extreme negative power if you let it and Sarah Silverman is brave, because she got on stage in front of some global minds and dropped it over and over and over."
To call Sarah Silverman 'brave' for repeating this naughty word in front of a TED audience really is retarded. If this is what it means to be a subversive comedian in 2010, Richard Pryor must be turning in his grave.
From the descriptions, there is no question that Sarah used the word 'retard' in the technically correct context, and NOT as a derogatory term. Sarah's brand of humour is based on shock and blatant unabashed selfishness. It clearly shows the difference between using a 'politically incorrect' word a few times and being genuinely offensive.
Using the word 'retard' as an insult (the way you just did) doesn't just insult the person being referred to - it implies that people who are actually retarded have something to be ashamed of.
I understand why the audience may have been outraged by the jokes (i.e. adopting a vulnerable child for self-aggrandisement). YOU have also managed to be offensive.
There is a sense in which PC language suppresses the real struggle that comes with difficult social issues, sterilizes them for us, and makes them into abstract problems that everyone can claim to care about but do nothing about.
Silverman's insight was that by breaking out of the PC mold she was able to shine the spotlight on a difficult social issue.
Is it the highest level of subversive comedy? Probably not, but it's certainly a courageous form of activism.
I find Sarah Silverman to be hilarious.
Maybe I'm insensitive or too immature, but that makes me laugh like crazy. Just imaging the look on the adoption agency person's face is hilarious.
Here's a similar clip of Evil Dave Letterman from the Howard Stern show calling an adoption agency asking for a black kid: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXrhI2q-EeI
I cringed when the article compared her use of the word 'retard' to Colbert's routine where he calls Palin a 'fucking retard'. Here's the difference: Colbert spent about 10 minutes building up to the slur. The political allusions, the searing sarcasm, and the final shockingly unsubtle slur was brilliant. And made me cry from laughing.
Silverman, OTOH, has reached the level of humor that I got bored with in 7th grade. If her routine actually had some intelligence to it, she probably could have gotten away with much worse.
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Oh for pete’s sake it’s Sara Silverman! She’s a shock and insult comic! WTF did they expect!? Had they never seen a show of hers?
"Oh my god I bought this grenade pulled out the pin and it totally blew up my house! This grenade sucks!"
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retarded, adj. Slow or backward in mental or emotional development
Those sound innocuous enough to me, but "challenged" is the vogue and should be safe for 20 years or so.
This is easily the most offensive sentence in the article. Black people are not mythical stabby monsters.
words have power, and that aint going anywhere.