I would definately follow-up with at least a thanks for the intro, and give a quick introduction of yourself, maybe your team, but keep it short.
Do a bit of research on what the partner specializes in, and make sure that fits with what you are building. Give a bit of insight into what you are doing, so that the partner can associate you with a project/product, and be sure to let him know that you don't think you're ready for a meeting yet.
Basically, you want to build a bit of rapport. Keep in mind, that a pitch is as much for you to learn and get a feel for the VC, as it is for them to get to meet you.
So, yes to #2.