Ask HN: At what forums do the cool kids hang out?

Hello everybody..

I've recently started asking questions on good old Stack Overflow that have been battered by closures due to being out of scope, not a proper question etc..

I've basically come to the realisation that I need a decent web forum to join and participate in. I am part of other forum on other topics but not for software. I participate on boards.ie and the Development section. Some great guys there but not a huge amount of "footfall" so sometimes questions don't get a great response.

I have just joined Dream In Code and going to give that a go but I'm curious to hear where people here hang.

Thanks in advance.