I'm happy to call Josh and Rob friends and am excited to see what they do next.
Their story has inspired me to write a blog post based around the following premise:
Taking that VC money is a root cause of most/all of the "Deadly Mistakes" Rob and Josh made.
Whatever you think about that premise, hopefully you'll agree that it's not a bad idea to stop, think, and discuss before you make an irreversible, and potentially fatal, decision.
Here is the blog post (too long to cut and paste here): ""Bootstrap or Die - Lessons Learned From a Web Startup's Murder/Suicide"": http://bootstrappy.blogspot.com/2010/02/bootstrap-or-die-les...
Your candidness and willingness to reflect and learn from your mistakes are a good indicator for future success.