> if you don't want to risk having a child, don't have sex.
... which applies only to one sex. Women can have an abortion, and choose to not be a parent. Men can't. That doesn't sound like equality to me.
Western courts have held that men have absolute liability for their sperm. This includes the following situations:
* your girlfriend lies about being on the pill
* your girlfriend fishes the condom out of the garbage and impregnates herself
* your girlfriends roommate fishes the condom out of the garbage and impregnates herself
* your girlfriend impregnates herself with the leavings after giving you oral sex
* as an underage boy, you are raped by an adult woman.
The last one is surprising.
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/1996-12-22/features/96122...
The judge said "Victims have rights. Here, the victim also has responsibilities."
The admitted and convicted pedophile has full custody of a minor child, and her victim is ordered to pay the criminal money... or go to jail for non-payment of support.
I support equality. I have a hard time finding equality in the court decisions in this area.