As someone writing a lot of ruby, "give me whatever" is analogous to "give me the latest unless I specify otherwise", which I consider to be a very good default. It keeps me up to date with security issues, and incompatibilities between libraries that the respective maintainers resolve amongst themselves with a minimum of manual work.
Yes, this is the way that Guix and Leiningen and rebar3 and a bunch of other things work, and it is wonderful.
Pulling in new code without you asking is a fine idea for something like apt-get where you have a huge team doing QA on the entire system working together before it even hits your repositories, but for most package managers, the dev team is the one doing the testing, and upgrades should be done only with great care.
It does mean you have to watch for security updates, but this is true of all package managers.
Even in Nix/Guix, it's still ideal for upstream projects to express their dependencies in terms of ranges (semver-wise), otherwise we run into the problem have either really large run-time dependency closures, or problems around e.g. wanting to use multiple (overly specified) versions of C libs within the same process.
As the current maintainer of Nixpkgs' Bundler-based build infrastructure, I've found the lockfile approach that Bundler uses to be quite frustrating - in part because Bundler's design is antithetical to packaging, but also due to the build times and sizes of the resulting packages, compared to C libraries. (People give C a hard time wrt productivity and security and such, but when it comes to packaging, C libs are usually so much easier to work with than most other higher level languages.)
I would love to see more adoption of semver, and possibly Haskell's PVP (https://wiki.haskell.org/Package_versioning_policy). Granted, dynamic programming languages don't have the benefit of making API breakage obvious at build time, so perhaps the best we can do in such cases -- if we want any certainty that packaged applications will actually function correctly -- is lock down every dependency version precisely per application...
FWIW I have been doing ruby for over a decade now, and I hold up Bundler as one of the great success stories of open source, and it is one of the reasons I hold Yehuda Katz in high regard, in that he was able to solve a really big problem in the community and hammer it into shape aggressively over a period of two years with a lot of doubters and naysayers (even Rubygems core was against Bundler for a long time), until it finally got so solid for so many use cases (libraries vs apps, private vs public, development vs deployment, etc, etc) where it solved nearly everyone's problems in such a solid way that everyone adopted it.
One example of this is having a repeatable developer setup guide. If the dependencies might have changed by the time a new joiner starts your setup guide could very easily end up useless or misleading and that's without anything at all in your own codebase having changed.
Shrinkwrap fixes this, but always gets added after things went wrong several times already. It should be the default.