Damn. I am on okc and I am ball-busting women all the time. Ok admittedly I got lucky a few times but they didn't stick for long and most of them were meh anyway. I think the crucial difference in the GP's case was that she initiated it; she had already preselected him for whatever reason. This almost never happens to me and when it does it's not from women I'd be thrilled to get together with. Sigh