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0 pointsrokhayakebe10y ago0 comments

In every universe my friend.

I have no idea what the context was for Naval, but if someone walks to you and say "excuse me I hope I am not interrupting," REGARDLESS of your conversation (because you are in a public place), you stop and give them 15 seconds.

For how do you know they are not telling you your car is being towed, or your kid is being taken away, or you dropped your wallet.

If it were Obama who walked to them would they have stopped for 15 seconds? If yes, then what is the difference?

At the very least say with a smile that you are sorry, but this is really not a good time, but they can email you if it is not urgent.

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ceejayoz10y ago· 2 in thread

> For how do you know they are not telling you your car is being towed, or your kid is being taken away, or you dropped your wallet.

You don't generally start conversations like that with "hope I'm not interrupting". "Someone's taking your kid!" would be the starting point, most likely.

> If it were Obama who walked to them would they have stopped for 15 seconds? If yes, then what is the difference?

They're not Obama?

rokhayakebeOP10y ago

If you are nice to people simply because it is advantageous to you, then you are not nice. As far as I am concern, yourself and Obama get the same first 30 seconds, countenance, and respect. And if I must turn both of you down, I should do it politely.

Note: I am not saying this is what the guy did, I have no context and I was not there.

ceejayoz10y ago

Look, I think quite highly of myself... but 30 seconds of my attention is not worth 30 seconds of Obama's attention to the average person. "We're having a conversation here" isn't impolite, and a no one has a right to a random stranger's attention.

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