I think this emerge of a certain way that programmers think of other programers.

There are of course exceptions, but often tools made by other programmers don't seem to respect us as users and have bad user experience: - Few thoughts given to make common operations good, - Lots of clunky menus, - Poor performance,

Basically going out of their ways to make us do something else than programming by killing the feedback loop. (Think libraries that are slow to compile, tools that run slowly or require assistance or are otherwise too granular)

The absolute worst example I can give is something like Hudson or Jenkins.